Don’t Let Negative Things Stop You From Doing Your Fervor In Life

Have you ever experienced of being stopped by obstacles and struggles from doing your fervor in life?

How does it feel when your love ones and friends are on the top list of stopping you from having your success in life?

What did you do to prevent those negative things from negating you and harming your business?

I had been suffering from all of those things when I just started to change my fervor in life – from Employment to MLM Business. I think those struggles I experienced in life are very common to every action taker and opportunity grabber individual. But today, I want to share my short story with you to let you have my piece of advice and get the idea about what I did to shape up success of doing my fervor in life.

Starting Point

Way back year 2012 when my friend and at the same time a colleague in my previous job invited me to attend a Business Orientation Meeting (BOM) at exactly three o’clock in the afternoon. At that time, I really did not know what the heck that meeting all about because my friend did not tell me anything and it was my first time to attend such kind of gathering. Sabi pa n’ya basta pumasok lang ako, umupo, makinig at pagkatapos ay gawin ko raw ‘yung mga sasabihin n’ya. Dun sa loob, nagtaka ako kung bakit napakaraming tao at nung nag-umpisa nang magsalita ang speaker ay sumigaw pa ng “good morning!” kahit hapon na. ‘Yung mga tao naman sumisigaw ng “power! power!” at “payaman ako!”. Parang ayuko pang sumabay sa kanila dahil pakiramdam ko mga baliw yata sila, sinapian, kasapi ng kulto at kung mga anu-anong bagay pa ang pumasok sa isip ko nung mga oras na ‘yun. Natawa na lang ako sa sarili ko at pinilit sumabay sa kanila, umupo at nakinig ng mabuti sa speaker as what my friend told me. After an hour ay natapos na ‘yung orientation. Lumabas ako ng orientation room kasama ng kaibigan ko at pumunta kami ng building lobby para ipakilala sa mga business partners n’ya. Yung iba sa kanila ay kinumbinsi pa ako na mag-join sa business at pinakitaan ako ng mga resulta tulad ng limpak-limpak na pera, magagandang kotse at mamahaling gadgets na nabili raw nila mula sa income ng negosyong ginagawa. Nagulat talaga ako sa mga nakita ko at parang hindi ako makapaniwala na may ganung klaseng resulta ang mga ‘yon at very young age and that was the fact. Pagkatapos nun ay may pinaliwanag sa’kin ‘yung kaibigan ko na kailangan ko raw gawin. Sinunod at ginawa ko lahat ng mga ‘yon dahil ‘yung isang bagay na nasa isip ko ay “I want to be wealthy” kaya na-hype at na-motivate ako na gawin ‘yung negosyo.

After few days ng pag-iipon ng pang-invest ay nag-pay in ako para ma-involve sa business at maging business partner nila. Inumpisahan ko agad ang negosyo and after a couple of weeks ay nag-resign ako sa trabaho para mag-fulltime sa business. Ganun kabuo ang loob ko nung time na ‘yun. Fortunately, sinuwerte naman dahil kumita agad ako at dumami ‘yung mga naging business partners ko at sa katunayan nga ay nakatanggap pa ako ng award mula sa team bilang “best in sales” kahit na baguhan pa lang sa negosyo.

Days of Struggles

As I go along the way of doing MLM Business ay d’un ko na naramdaman ‘yung hirap dahil nagsimula na akong maka-encounter ng mga obstacles and challenges na lingid sa kaalaman ko ay hindi pala madali ang lahat. Nung una ay hindi ko pinansin ang mga rejections and negative things dahil ang sabi ng kaibigan ko normal lang daw ang mga bagay na ‘yun sa umpisa pero habang tumatagal ay lalong humihirap. ‘Yun ang reality na hindi n’ya ipinagtapat sa ’kin bago pa ako mag-join sa business.

The time came. My friends, relatives, family and love ones started to discourage me. I wasted a lot of money aside from business capital, nag-umpisa nang mag-quit at maubos ang mga business partners ko, dumami ang mga tao sa paligid na nag-negative sa’kin at sa business ko, nagkanda-utang na ako, hindi na ako nakabayad ng renta sa bahay, naubusan na ako ng panggalaw sa negosyo, hindi ko na nailibre sa restaurant ang mga kaibigan ko, hindi ko na nabilhan ng masarap na pagkain, mga bagong damit at hindi ko na naipasyal sa mall ang family ko, wala na akong social life, hindi na ako nakabili ng mga bagong damit at gadgets, nagutom at nagkasakit na ako, at kung anu-ano pang mga negative things ang nagsimulang dumating at sunod-sunod pa. In short, parang gusto ko nang mag-quit at pumasok na lang sa iba dahil nawala talaga ang lahat sa ‘kin at subra akong nahirapan.

Ganito ba talaga kahirap mag-negosyo? Mas mahirap pa yata ‘nung empleyado pa ako ah? tanong ko sa sarili. I was very tired and almost lost at that time. I thought that was a very frustrating moment na na-encounter ko sa tanang buhay. Halos hindi na ako makagalaw ng tama. Lahat ng ‘yon ay ang mga bagay na pumigil sa tagumpay at sa pag-abot ng aking mga pangarap sa buhay.

The Problem Approach I Did

Nevertheless, I did not let those negative things really stopped me from doing my fervor in life. All I did was finding ways everyday to solve my business problems. I did not stop my craziness because I still believe the power of Network Marketing Business to change lives despite of those struggles I encountered with. I always went to church and pray that God will show me the better way to success. Until one day when I was doing an internet research about how to do my MLM Business easier in the right way, habang nasa internet café ako at nakaharap sa computer sa loob ng halos isang araw kakahanap ng solusyon, all of the sudden may na-click akong google ad about Pinoy MLM Tips at napunta ako sa isang personal website at dun ko nakilala ang owner ng website na ‘yun. Isang napakagaling at resultadong “Online Mentor” and “Internet Network Marketer” na si Eduard Reformina. Itinuro n’ya sakin ang mga knowledge and skills na eksaktong ginamit n’ya sa kanyang negosyo.

“Thanks God! You’re a Great Provider. You answered my prayer”…

“Matatapos na rin sa wakas ang paghihirap ko”, nasabi ko sa sarili habang nasa loob ng internet café.

At that moment, I was very inspired to do my business for the second time around. After almost five hours of watching his online training videos and reading eBooks, I went home with positive outlook and planned everything to do. I started to change my beliefs, mindset, and lifestyle. Nagbasa ako araw-araw ng mga free MLM eBooks mula sa Mentor ko. Nag-attend din ako ng mga basic online trainings and courses at pinanuod ko ‘yung mga short-course videos na ginawa nya para makakuha ng business tips. I gave trust to my “Online Mentor”. After few weeks, I bought a laptop and I started to apply all the knowledge and skills I learned from him. I created a personal blog site or website about my company, products and services I’m offering (where in you are stopping by right now) and published it online as per Mentor’s advice. In short, nagsimula ulit ako sa umpisa at bumangon mula sa pagkabagsak. It’s my second time around. Kudos to my Great Mentor!

The Shape of Success

Now, I’m doing my online MLM Business and so far I’m getting great results. I meet a lot of positive, qualified and targeted prospects everyday. I leave alone the traditional way of sponsoring people in my business because I earned nothing but frustrations, rejections, hatreds, time wasting and very strenuous – no results at all. For me and to others who are doing online MLM Business, that is obsolete nowadays. I conquered those challenges and obstacles and my family is now starting to be proud of me.

How about you partner? What is your fervor in life? Could you let me know?

Kung nakaka-relate at nakaka-experience ka tulad nung sa ‘kin, pwede mong gawin ‘yung ginawa ko. Try to find your right Mentor dahil siya ang tamang tao na makakatulong sa mga problema mo sa negosyo o sa kahit anumang larangan.

To those business-minded people out there, if your passions in life are all about business pero kulang sa investment, knowledge and marketing skills, you can go with me and be part of my team. Pwede mo rin akong maging Mentor if you trust me like I trust my Mentor. I can show you and teach you the system I implemented in my own business. Let’s build a team of successful young entrepreneurs and be wealthy at our young age. That’s possible!

*P.S. Sana nakatulong ‘yung short story ko para magkaroon ka ng konting idea na makapag-decide ng tama sa buhay. Kung gusto mong ma-eliminate ang mga negative things at gawin ng tama ang Network Marketing Business para magtagumpay at makamit ang mga pangarap sa buhay, please go ahead and contact me soon as possible. Don’t waste your “gold time” and don’t wait for tomorrow – this is not a good attitude. I’m always here and willing to help you 100%.

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Your business partner to success,

Jeyrom Billan

Online/Internet Network Marketer and Blogger

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